The different understanding of things in life.

I wish I could, but I can not : I cannot be the woman you want me to be—however that may look. I cannot be richer than you; you grew up with old money. I do not desire it. Because I am aware of the price that comes with it. I paid it once, I'd rather take the peace I have now and make life work.  I cannot be the woman you need me to be because we live in different worlds. You do not accept me for who I am, and it would not matter how much I twist and turn. I am who I am, and you are who you are—stuck in the world you grew up in. You have never experienced anything else. Our journey was short and sweet, but it has to end here. Because we live in different worlds, and you are not accepting me and my world, nor me and what I could give you, because it has no value to you. I wish you could see my world through my eyes. But you don't even want to explore it. To you, it's a joke. You refuse to accept a "no" because perhaps no one has ever denied you or your demands....

  Motherhood and having a child is more than a blood connection. It is a part of you, a part you have not discovered yet. But when you do, when you have gone on to that journey, it is so incredibly moving. You will know her; you will embrace that part of you, that part which you will discover. That part, you have not seen and felt yet. She will encourage you to be more, She will make you braver, She will make you aware of how strong you have been, how strong you are. She will make you see how incredible you are in more than one way. She will make you realize you are a fighter if you have to be one. She will make you aware of that warrior; you have always hidden in you that you can fight for what is right and needs protection. She will make you that adventurer who does take a risk for the greater good. Motherhood is more than a blood connection. It is a journey you decide to take and share with a child, which does not always need to be born from your loi...

  When parenting becomes difficult.   Each Child Has Unique Needs Each child brings their own personality, challenges, and needs. As a mom, it’s never easy to balance them all. That’s why it’s equally important to learn how to balance yourself . This guide offers ideas and approaches tailored to each child, which can be adapted or expanded as needed over time. How Children Can Get Your Attention When a child needs your attention or wants to talk: Ask them to gently place their hand on your hip, shoulder, or arm—whichever is easiest for them to reach. When you feel their hand, place yours over it and give them a warm, reassuring smile. This lets them know you see them and that you care. Finish what you're doing if it can’t be paused immediately, then turn your full attention to them as soon as you can. General Guidelines for Interacting with Children Be Present: Try to give your full attention when they n...

  Many nights ago, I had a conversation with my younger brother.   He is 23 and lives abroad also is single. He like most people is having friends who tell him to go to bars and find a girl to “hook up” with to satisfy his “needs”.   He is very sensitive and cares much about a person he is with. He felt wrong to use a woman for a “need” he had. He felt very conflicted and pressured and asked for advice. In a way it is very honorable when you get asked from your brother to help in that matter. I assured him I was not judging him for it in general, because I do not. Wanting Sex and feeling the need for having sex is human. We all are different and have different mind sets for it. I let him talk about it first and he said he wants sex to be special just with the person he loves, and he want to take his time to make it special, but he did not know how to deal with the pressure. I assured him that being under pressure is normal and feeling a bit helpless and need...