The connection between sense and sexuality.
Many nights ago, I had a conversation with my younger brother. He is 23 and lives abroad also is single. He like most people is having friends who tell him to go to bars and find a girl to “hook up” with to satisfy his “needs”. He is very sensitive and cares much about a person he is with. He felt wrong to use a woman for a “need” he had. He felt very conflicted and pressured and asked for advice. In a way it is very honorable when you get asked from your brother to help in that matter. I assured him I was not judging him for it in general, because I do not. Wanting Sex and feeling the need for having sex is human. We all are different and have different mind sets for it. I let him talk about it first and he said he wants sex to be special just with the person he loves, and he want to take his time to make it special, but he did not know how to deal with the pressure. I assured him that being under pressure is normal and feeling a bit helpless and need...